Here's just a little layout commemorating 21 years of marriage.
So what's it like being married for 21 years?
Simple answer - Like this!
It's nothing like being married for one year or seven years. It's not like being married for 10 or 15 years.
21 years feels like 21 years!!
We continue to learn more about God's love and mercy. We continue to grow in grace. We continue to become more like Christ and we continue to realise that without Christ we can do nothing.
I like the passage in Philippians that says "In relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus:" and then goes on to tell us what that is like. You can read it here - Philippians 2:1-18.